
June 17, 1995- I married my wonderful husband.
I was a thirty year old bride.
In my 20's there was an old joke about once you were 30 you had a better chance of being captured by terrorists- than to get married. I am pretty sure that that joke is not used as much these days.
This was our engagement picture--------->
(Our orthodontist's office is in the background across the lake. Just a bit of trivia for you.) Weren't we cute and young?(That part of my dress that is sticking out by my forearm is called a peplem- Yeah, we wore dresses with shoulder pads and peplems in the 90's. Now our bodies just have those parts naturally.)
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ANYWAY- I know that God had a plan in the time that I waited for my wonderful Hubby. 1. He
was is 4 years younger than me. 2. He did 7 years of school to get his Bachelors and Masters. 3. I was a poor Christian school teacher for 8 years. I learned lessons in frugality and also waiting on the Lord. I am glad,
now, we had those years of maturing and growing.
"We love each other more and more each day/week/month/year."
I remember hearing people say that kind of thing- and I couldn't understand how that could be. I thought when I married him that I could not possibly love him more than that. However, now I see that as you travel together through life's experiences, you appreciate and are in awe that this person will sacrifice and be willing to endure the good the bad and the ugly. This is the glue that cements us to each other and makes us love each other more and more. I also think that the lack of that togetherness can push people apart.
I wrote Chris a poem while we were engaged
(I know, I had time to sit and think of rhyming things back then :/)
Wait! It's Great!
God promises to bless abundantly,
if on Him we wait.
As a living example, I assure you
the results are great!
It isn't always easy,
we think we know what's best.
We try to do it our way,
waiting is a difficult test.
But when the time has come,
and God reveals His reward.
We shouldn't be surprised
at the abundance of the Lord.
For on His overwhelming supply,
we can definitely rely.
We'd be content to settle,
for dry old peanut butter.
But the Lord wants to give us,
juicy steak and lobster.
I love you Chris B____
not a minute too late,
your God's steak and lobster blessing,
on my 29 year wait!!
After 15 years of marriage, I am more than thankful for the Steak blessing he is in my life. (I actually have never eaten lobster.)
I love you, honey.